Life returns to normal

Well. I have not written in a long time...my sister-n-law says that I need to update this...so here we go....Scott has returned and we are getting back to normal...well what is normal really.....We are getting into a routine and things are much more settled here. Scott and I are doing just about everything together which is a switch for us...Use to he would take care of certain things and I would take care of others....This is a lot nicer and we seem to have found our nitch again. The children are a lot calmer and less at each other now that he is home. I am a traditional girl and believe in the family unit. I was raised that the men take care of the family and protect the family, while in my growing up the women did work and contribute to the house, it was still the man who was the protector. I believe in that even now and Scott is definitaly our protector. He makes me feel more safe and that everything will be ok. We have made an agreement that we will leave the past regrets, past hurt, past anger in the past. We can not change it and it has made us who we are today, but we are not going to bring it up, we are going to move on from here and we are determined to make sure that we are treating each other with respect and love. We are making decisions together and talking to each other. I realized that a lot of our issues were my issues from insecurity, low self esteem and my feelings of inadequacy. He is making sure to complient me, to spend alone time with me and making sure that I am doing ok. We just got back from a disney cruise trip. It was so much fun and I am so glad that we did. They really make it easy for a family to spend time together as well as having couples being able to spend time together. We spent a lot of time together and talked like we have not done in years...Now I am off to do my homework as I have started my BA degree online and it is so much work, more than I have done in years....